11 Things That Instantly Make A Man Hot

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    Strength -- This does not mean how much a man can bench press. We're talking about the I-know-who-I-am strength. There is nothing sexier than a man who's grounded, who's in command of the impulses and anger that may have derailed him when he was younger, whose quiet confidence telegraphs, without a hint of arrogance, that he has nothing to prove.
    1/11 Strength -- This does not mean how much a man can bench press. We're talking about the I-know-who-I-am strength. There is nothing sexier than a man who's grounded, who's in command of the impulses and anger that may have derailed him when he was younger, whose quiet confidence telegraphs, without a hint of arrogance, that he has nothing to prove.
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    Vulnerability -- A man isn't strong unless he is also vulnerable. This means he can tell you what he wants, when he's afraid, how you make him feel, what he did that he's made amends for, what he's overcome, what brings him to his knees. Without transparency, there can be no genuine intimacy.
    2/11 Vulnerability -- A man isn't strong unless he is also vulnerable. This means he can tell you what he wants, when he's afraid, how you make him feel, what he did that he's made amends for, what he's overcome, what brings him to his knees. Without transparency, there can be no genuine intimacy.
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    Integrity -- This separates the boys from the men. While they may dazzle in the beginning, womanizers, scoundrels, and narcissists use lies, cheap tricks, and smoke and mirrors for personal gain. There is nothing sexy about a man who pretends to be something he's not, who lacks any depth of feeling.
    3/11 Integrity -- This separates the boys from the men. While they may dazzle in the beginning, womanizers, scoundrels, and narcissists use lies, cheap tricks, and smoke and mirrors for personal gain. There is nothing sexy about a man who pretends to be something he's not, who lacks any depth of feeling.
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    Intellect -- A beautiful mind is sexy. Critical thinking, an unquenchable thirst for learning, and a gift for distinctive self-expression create is a huge turn on. Some women don't care how gorgeous a man is; if he can't entice them with his mind, the sexual chemistry won't be there.
    4/11 Intellect -- A beautiful mind is sexy. Critical thinking, an unquenchable thirst for learning, and a gift for distinctive self-expression create is a huge turn on. Some women don't care how gorgeous a man is; if he can't entice them with his mind, the sexual chemistry won't be there.
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    Sense of humor -- A man who lacks a sense of humor is like a cold shower. It's impossible for anyone to connect with someone who's ultra-literal, hyper-serious, and rarely laughs. Smart people read nuances and see the humor in situations. And the brand of humor is critical. Even if a guy is hot, if his version of funny doesn't sync with yours, the sexy won't stay sexy for long.
    5/11 Sense of humor -- A man who lacks a sense of humor is like a cold shower. It's impossible for anyone to connect with someone who's ultra-literal, hyper-serious, and rarely laughs. Smart people read nuances and see the humor in situations. And the brand of humor is critical. Even if a guy is hot, if his version of funny doesn't sync with yours, the sexy won't stay sexy for long.
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    Warmth -- It's exhausting trying to connect with someone behind walls. Compassion, empathy, a ready smile, an easy laugh, these traits and actions are disarming. Kind is sexy!
    6/11 Warmth -- It's exhausting trying to connect with someone behind walls. Compassion, empathy, a ready smile, an easy laugh, these traits and actions are disarming. Kind is sexy!
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    Generosity -- Stinginess is a massive turn-off! Not only stingy with money, but also stingy with feelings. Being stingy with one's money and emotions, indicates a lack of control or self-worth and counting dollars and withholding genuine contact suggests a preference for things over people.
    7/11 Generosity -- Stinginess is a massive turn-off! Not only stingy with money, but also stingy with feelings. Being stingy with one's money and emotions, indicates a lack of control or self-worth and counting dollars and withholding genuine contact suggests a preference for things over people.
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    Affectionate -- Affection is warmth in action. A soft kiss on the back of my neck as he walks by. A soft squeeze of the knee. A man who loves touch for the sake of touch, whether or not it leads to sex, is sexy.
    8/11 Affectionate -- Affection is warmth in action. A soft kiss on the back of my neck as he walks by. A soft squeeze of the knee. A man who loves touch for the sake of touch, whether or not it leads to sex, is sexy.
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    Mindfulness -- the ability to be aware and present in the moment, even if that moment is painful. This is the ultimate form of ambition because it requires a commitment to personal growth that is not for the faint hearted. A man who radiates quiet confidence, who is able to remain calm and centered in the face of challenges, can make women weak in the knees.
    9/11 Mindfulness -- the ability to be aware and present in the moment, even if that moment is painful. This is the ultimate form of ambition because it requires a commitment to personal growth that is not for the faint hearted. A man who radiates quiet confidence, who is able to remain calm and centered in the face of challenges, can make women weak in the knees.
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    Partnership -- The only place a women wants to be dominated is in the bedroom, and that still requires consent. In all other contexts, women want a man who doesn't try to dominate them, who understands the need for compromise, communication and respect. We have no time or patience for men who play games and control women in order to feel like men.
    10/11 Partnership -- The only place a women wants to be dominated is in the bedroom, and that still requires consent. In all other contexts, women want a man who doesn't try to dominate them, who understands the need for compromise, communication and respect. We have no time or patience for men who play games and control women in order to feel like men.
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    Sexual confidence -- True sexual confidence has nothing to do with penis size or smooth moves! It's, an ability to read the body and breath, a sensual lingering in the moment that always requires a desire to be vulnerable and present. A sexually charged man who is in command of his urges and firmly situated in his sexual expression will turn a women breathless and weak at the knees in a moment!
    11/11 Sexual confidence -- True sexual confidence has nothing to do with penis size or smooth moves! It's, an ability to read the body and breath, a sensual lingering in the moment that always requires a desire to be vulnerable and present. A sexually charged man who is in command of his urges and firmly situated in his sexual expression will turn a women breathless and weak at the knees in a moment!

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Fletch, Vaughan and Megan read out this list this morning and we think it's definitely worth a read over lads! 

Note - none of these are actual physical traits!

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