This Tumblr For the Last Messages Between Exes Is So Real

Last year he told me that he wanted to be with me and that he loved me. Less than a month later he found a new girlfriend and he’s ignored me ever since.

He died of a drug overdose a few days later.

I invited him to come watch my play every day for a month and he always said he was gonna come because that’s what friends do, but then he didn’t show up. I asked him why and this is what I got.

That Friday I was at a fraternity party, and that was the last time I saw him. It turned out he drove home and took his own life. I knew something was wrong when I hadn’t heard from him. We were in love and planning our future together. He left behind a son as well.

He and I have a long history. The last time we talked, we were both drunk and he said he was still in love with me. But I don’t love him anymore. I told him I’d talk to him when we were sober. I haven’t spoken to him since.

He never replied and I have no idea why.

She still wanted to be friends after we broke up but I didn’t have the heart to tell her that I never wanted to be friends with her again.

That’s when I decided I couldn’t take his shit anymore. 

“I’m gonna be honest. I was drunk last night and didn’t mean to say any of that. I hope we can still be friends.”

This after a year of drunk dialing me and never officially committing to dating me.

He didn't.

My ex, who I was still friendly with at the time, after I walked in on him and my best friend sleeping together

It’s almost one year later, after ending my friendship with my best friend. He had realized he was better off without me, yet he strung me along knowing I was at his disposal. Until I finally realized, we were both better off without each other.

He was talking to another girl while typing this.

I asked him for some closure. We’d broken up two months previous and hadn’t talked since, it was sudden and painful after 2 years of dating and 1 year of living together. He had opened up communication the day previously, wanting to be friends, and I shut it down quickly but then realized I wanted some answers about the breakup and had texted asking for him to explain why he had wanted to breakup in the first place. He said he was super drunk watching the game and I said he could do it tomorrow. He never texted me the next day. I suspect this was the last time I’ll ever talk to him.

There never was a then. He didn’t show up. And then I didn’t hear from him. And then I said goodbye.

After 5 years of friendship, I always thought he was going to be the one I ended up with, but I guess things just didn’t turn out that way. It’s crazy to think about all those conversations and memories came to end in one single word, “No”.

We never dated, only hung out and hooked up. He was my first kiss and it got to be too much for me so I ended things before I could get hurt.

He was emotionally abusive.
He found a new girlfriend two weeks later.
I hope he’s treating her better than he did me.
It’s been a year since this, and I’m still too scared to date someone new.
He was my best friend before we dated.

We dated for two years. He cheated on me. I took him back, but it was never the same. We never broke up, but this was the last we ever spoke. He was my very first love.

He told me he still loved me a few days before this. We had been best friends for 4 years and also in love with each other. Then he pulled a 180 on me and acted like a complete stranger. I haven’t heard from him since.

My best friend, my everything, my partner, my soulmate of 12 years died of an overdose the night of August 24. At around 11 pm that night, I felt a wave of sadness wash over me out of nowhere. I highly suspect this is when he died. The last text conversation we had was about how much I work.

I got the call at 11 am the next day, August 25.

I got out of an abusive relationship, and this was one of the texts that I received after I told them that I wasn’t taking them back.